Are You Stuck?

Are you stuck? Do you know that you are capable of more? 

I was very stuck and not for a month, I’m talking years! I was on autopilot mode,  

doing things just because I was supposed to be doing them. Actually, I had no idea most of the time “why”. I just thought if I worked hard 5 days in the salon and then spent my life on an aeroplane doing what I really love (teaching), there would be this big pay off! 

I watched people around me design their life the way they truly wanted. I felt like if I wanted more, I was being selfish! So imagine the thoughts I was burdening myself with.? 

Shame-guilt-resentment = very low frequency of thoughts

I started to become resentful towards people who left my company and were creating the life they truly wanted. 

This was not obvious to me. It was not in my character to show up like this. This was something that happened over time. When I really started to look at my results, and I was honest with myself about how I was feeling that I realized I needed to change my thoughts. 

Every thought or action which is not harmonious, whether through ignorance or design will result in discord and limitation of all kinds.  ~Joseph Murphy 

The saying speaks of every thought. Not some thoughts, not possible thoughts. Our mind is like a garden and if we are not choosing our thoughts, our thoughts will choose us.

Thoughts- beliefs - behavior = Drives results. 

As I started to dig into what was driving my thoughts there was a whole lot that I discovered about my past that was buried. I was living with a lot of past regret and shame. 

Behaviours from my past that started to surface from my unconscious mind. This again was happening, but I could not figure out why.

Then I realized that as my daughter started reaching the age of 12, something tragic had happened to me, I started to associate this experience with her. I started to become more fearful, and I could not find the mental strength to move forward in life. 

I was stuck and paralyzed and even worse I had no idea why. I can remember going to see a therapist at this time and saying “ I am stuck, and I need you to hypnotize me out of this!” I knew I didn’t like where I was, but I could not figure out how to get out of where I was - to live the life I imagined. 

Today I am surrounded by some of the most influential people in the world, with RICH lifestyles from the inside out. This is not by chance. I have carefully monitored my thoughts over the past several years and have carefully chosen the people in my life I want to surround myself with.

In just a couple hours I will take part in a Mastermind comprising 50 of the most successful people in the world. I don’t say this to impress you, but to impress upon you that just a few years ago I was not anywhere near this opportunity. This has happened because I came to believe that we are co-creators of our life and we hold the key to living the life we imagine! 

I challenge you to carry a little journal with you and start monitoring your every thought. As you do this, write each thought and ask yourself - does this thought serve me? Is this thought something I want to keep or discard? 

Remember this is a process, be kind to yourself! Stay curious and keep growing.